We are compromising.

Hi friends!
In today's time, we are gradually being used to compromise in almost all walks of life. Surprisingly, this tendency of compromising is getting deep into our mind set. We don't even think about our morality and ethics. You will believe  it,
when you find that a child's admission into a school is
compromised.

If you minutely observe, you will find that the word compromise is spreading like  wildfire. Take the instance of
quality compromise. It is so widespread that no one needs any special study to know how it is done. I would  request you all to realise how every thread of life is being compromised.

Look at the  political scenario. Here,  you will find obnoxious
compromises in every stages of it without  caring for any
ethical code causing irreparable damage to the society percolating it to the ground level. This has not  spared any
segment of our life and living. We know everything about  it but we cannot be vocal about it as we are afraid of the giants
who are the beneficiaries of it. They are the managers of our
society.

Compromise should be there only to settle a conflict, conflict of any kind, it may be war or anything. Settlement here is
done through a system of give and take and a compromise is
done on mutual benefit.In this article, I have mentioned only the example of  a

school child's admission and from there straight to the political arena. Don't  think 

that the space between is spotless and clear. Everywhere you will find the disease

existing, somewhere less and somewhere more. I did not elaborate the situation 

in more details, as this would have taken enough space and time and the article 

would  have been long and vexing. 

I have only tried do this article to remind and keep the issue burning in your mind only. 

Thanks for your patience and bye for now. My regards for you all. 

Kalyan Ghosh.

Real is being rare.

Hi everybody!
We all search for everything pure. We feel glad if we get purity in things we search for. Here,  I am not only talking about the purity of commodities that we need in our everyday
life as eatables. Here, we must not compromise as our health
should always be our priority. To oversee it, we have certain
agencies in place to check in stages, but,  can we be sure that
impurities have been eliminated? The answer  is a flat no. It was there and it will be there but the issue is the length of impurities. We should  be very vocal to help reduce it so that
the society is benefited.

Impurities in life and living are causing a great concern. We all are being impacted by it directly or indirectly. We cannot trust anyone easily. We put everything under a suspicious scanner. We cannot come closer with one another. Relationships are breaking unexpectedly. The rate of divorce
has been increasing. There has been a rise in the number people being deceived. Friendships are not lasting for long.
Even the intrafimily relationships are being doubted. If you look around and think seriously, the reasons for this may become apparent to you too.

It is mind that has been working behind this scenario. It is
the impurities in the thinking process that make us selfish and self centred .We are gradually being used to living our
lives without caring for the sentiments of others. This situation is not healthy for us at all. We should live and let others live on equal  terms. Our mind should remain pure
helping others to be pure mentally and if this practice goes on
then we can present ourselves to be more reliable and trustworthy before all. At the end, I should  say, eat pure, think pure and live pure.

Thanks for your patience. Bye for now and regards.

Kalyan Ghosh.

Performance is all

Hi freinds!
By nature,we all like performances. If you cannot perform, you have no place to stand anywhere.If you are outperformed in a competition, you are humiliated. If you look at the school
going children, you will see that they are always overstressed because of their performance in the exams.Their parents do not want to see them stand second. They must stand first, come what may.

This situation is seen everywhere and in this the children
cannot blossom with other human qualities. An irrepairable
damage is being done to them. Still we cannot withstand anything other than being first always and everywhere and
in every walk of life.

Think, that this compitition begins unfortunately from the very childhood and it goes on and on. We have made our
mindset in such a way that we cannot accept anything other
than being first. Being second or third or fourth is so so and
nothing impressive.

This compitiveness prevails everywhere, in every walk of life.
Be it sports, education, job market, musical world, and what not. We know that this will prevail for long and this is not going to change in future.

One thing I feel about it and that is - first is first always and they are always extraordinary. In all the developmental works, firsts are firsts and they are always prefered and engaged. Firsts are always needed and welcome but not everyone comes with first class intelligence and they are few but the world rolls on with the mass under the leadership of the firsts. This is admitted.

To-day, I will end here before it is made too long. Thanks for
your patience and bye for now. My regards for you all,

Kalyan Ghosh.

Money power.

Hi friends!
We all know that money is a necessity rather it is indispensable for our livelihood. Everyone is racing for it. In this race, some become rich, some remain mideocre and the balance remain poor with miseries.

It is a proven fact that the rich do not help the the poor to upgrade directly. The poor are benefitted by being employed
under them and it is said that the poor are exploited. For it's reasons, one has to spend lot of time  and space which I am not going to do here.

Now in the process, some from the mediocre  group become
rich and one of the reasons for it is their own education and the education of their upcoming generation. The poor falls back because they can't afford for education as is required.

Now, we have seen how money dominates our lives. Here, I would like to bring  the issue of honesty. If you  do your duties
with honesty and sincerity,  you will remain with less stress  of mind.

Money is powerful always and people  say that  money can buy anything. But there are certain things that money can't
buy. Hope, you would also agree. I am giving these below  for
you:

These are TRUST, PATIENCE, COMMON SENSE, CHARECTER,
MANNERS, INTEGRITY, MORALS, LOVE, CLASS and RESPECT.

For your good, please avoid the following things:

DOUBTING, NEGATIVE THINKING, FEAR OF FAILURE, CRITICIZING YOURSELF AND OTHERS, NEGATIVE SELF TALK
PROCRASTINATION, PEOPLE PLEASING and FEAR OF SUCCESS.

Usually I write small articles. I have to end here for today.
Bye for now. My regards for you all.

Kalyan Ghost.

Other side of the coin.

Hi all!
My youngest  granddaughter, daughter  of my youngest son came to our house with  my eldest son and his family. This season, there is severe cold in my home town. Yesterday morning, I was talking  to my
youngest son over phone. In the middle of conversation, my granddaughter took the receiver and started talking to her father. His father was advising her not to go out in the cold and to this the child said to her father, "yes,  it is too cold, but there are some  warm places here".I asked the kid about it and she said, my granny's lap is very  warm. This little kid's name is Goongoon.May God bless her.

It is very true, that in cold also there are places full of warmth. If you think deep, you will see that in every  bad situation, you will  find some
unexpected helping hands to help you pass the situation. In every dark
situation, you will find some light at the end. This  happens always.

Whenever you  find that you are in a stressful situation, though it is
difficult, still  you should  try your best to pass the time patiently and
you may rest assured that the situation will take a positive turn and be
normal. Such situations don't continue for long.

One should always try to find some positive elements in any distressing  situation, and if tried, he will surely find it and this will be the impetus for his further survival. We should  always  think positive and never feel low in a difficult situation. Doing it, is difficult but if done
you will see that bad times go at a point of time. Nothing  bad exists for long.

Everyone on earth has ups and downs in his life. If you are there, to see the ups only,  you are wrong. You should be ready to see some bads,  be it big or small. If you  read the lives of great souls,  there also,  you will  find the same. One thing you should keep in mind that if you  would like to  live your life,  then you should have a strong  will to live and get never nervous.

Think these seriously,  you will  find peace at every junction of life. This is the reality.

Thanks for your patience. Bye and regards for you all.

Kalyan Ghosh

Kalyan's views: Meditation is real healer.

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Quieting mind.

Hi friends! 
In this busy life, you don't have time to think a little  about yourself. You are always  too busy earning money for your family and attending  so many social  commitments. Doing all these,  you become exhausted  knowingly or unknowingly and at the end of it, you become frustrated and this frustration causes anger in you and you become unhappy in your life. 

Now, happiness is related to one's mind. It is a matter of feeling. Your brain does not come here for consideration. It gives you certain impulses. One should understand that mind and brain are two separate 
entities having separate functions. The brain remains full of clutters and it never helps the mind to be happy or to be peaceful. People don't say peace of brain, they say peace of mind. 

So,  to be happy or to be peaceful, one should practice to bring the mind
under control as mind has millions of wings to fly anywhere and anytime. Though,  I have spoken it in a sentence, but it is not easy rather hard. Mind shall never come under control with simple and self made techniques. It needs some special kind of a practice and here enters the 
idea of meditation. 

Don't think that meditation is undoable. Surely it can be done but slowly and gradually. My last article was titled " meditation is real healer ".It is true and a lot of Great Souls have spoken about it that this is the only way of getting peace, be it for short or long period of time. Meditation  and meditation only. 

Don't  avoid or neglect the idea. Firm your mind and try it as it gives you
a little everytime. Select a place with no distractions at all. Sit in this place being away from the hustles of life. Take a deep breathe through
nose as it gives you more oxygen and breath out. Put your mind in yourself and in the process of breathing. Avoid thinking about anything
except you. Do it for 5, 10, 15, 20 minutes gradually. 

If you do, you will  be rewarded surely. I have placed it before you in a very simple way though it is very delicate and subtle. 

Bye for now and my regards for you all. 
Kalyan Ghosh.