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Tuesday 13 March 2018

Whistleblowing - a holy job

Hello and welcome!

Hope, you must be knowing about whistleblowing. But, I am certain that not all know about it. I have checked it personally so I am sure of it. This job does not entail any high educational qualification nor does it attract any remuneration or money. This is an ideal thankless job. You will not find any employers for this job. But a whistleblower needs extraordinary qualification, and that is rare, valuable and socially helpful.

A whistleblower has to be very brave mentally, He is a social being having enough sense of responsibility towards the social wellbeing. He is out and out sincere and honest,  if he is a real whistleblower. He remains under cover and this is self designed. He is very politically conscious and is also aware of all the issues impacting the society directly or indirectly. He is always updated with latest informations about all the happenings in the society.

In every society, there are whistleblowers, known or unknown. Be sure that dishonest political leaders are very scared of these people always. These people always blow whistle for the common people fighting against corruption and to unearth scams.The job they do is never remunerated.
This is a selfless job. They do this kind job only being asked by their inner mind.

Whistleblowers are essential components of our society. They are somewhat like our social guards. We the common people cannot protest against any wrongdoing normally because of fear or indifference, but a whistleblower does it silently and intelligently and it is true that their numbers are declining day by day.

I would like to conclude here for today. Very soon I will come
to you with another article and till then bye from me.

Thanks and regards,
Kalyan Ghosh.

Wednesday 7 March 2018

Be real you - it is nothing complicated.

Hello and welcome!
We are all human beings. You should know that each person is made up of a combination of qualities, good or bad. I think,
till now, majority of people in our society is having good quality and so is the balance being maintained, and our society is running.

It is undeniable, that the number of people with negative mind is increasing day by day and it has become a global
phenomena . If you observe, you will find that cases of loot,
arson, robbery, burglary, rape including other social crimes are on the rise. Reasons behind it mainly are greed, impatience, intolerance and hypocrisy. I really do not know,
what is the harm in becoming a reasonable person adopting
a reasonable, peaceful clutterfree life.

You should believe that you did not come to this world with
negative mind from your boyhood. You were a very strong
person with everything original and very vocal with all sense
of responsibility and humour and don't forget humour is an
original and valuable quality as it alone can make one's life
very easy and enjoyable.

Here, I would like to take little time and space to mention
about one or two valuable qualities. It is about attitude to
inspiration. You know, that being rude is very easy. It does not
take any effort and is a sign of weakness and insecurity. Kindness shows great discipline and strong self esteem.Being kind is not always easy when dealing with rude people.
Kindness is a sign of s person who has done a lot of personal
work and has come to s great self understanding and wisdom.
Please, choose to be kind over being right, and you will be right every time because kindness is a sign of power and
strength.

I will conclude here today. Bye from me. My regards for you
all.
Kalyan Ghosh.

Tuesday 27 February 2018

Being good is wonderful.

Hi friends!
We are all human beings. But we all are different. Different in
nature. We talk differently. We also look differently. Our understanding of issues are different. Among all these differences, there are some similarities amongst us. Because of these similarities, we, men can co-exist. Because of this we
can live together in a family.This is true in both the cases of men and women.

These similarities are unique. Take the example of one quality in men and women and that is the quality of feeling good at good things or good gestures and similarly feeling bad at bad
things or bad gestures. We have lot of other valuable and fine or superfine qualities. These qualities help us live in a gentle
manners. We always aspire for these qualities. All the parents
try to imbibe these positive qualities in their children.

This quality makes a man or a woman great. Everywhere we
like to see good people all around. I am talking about only this
quality. Actually there are other innumerable positive qualities in human beings. It is a very simple issue both to think and listen to, but very difficult to attain. It can only be
achieved through a process of learning and training from the
childhood. However hard it is, it does not cost you anything.
It is an inherent desire of a person that makes him/her good.
This good is good everywhere. Because of this, our society persists. This quality plays the most important part in a relationship in between a man and a woman.

To lead a peaceful life, one should have this quality of being
good. One should consider that being good is also problematic. He has to deal with lot of problems. One should
try to manage and avoid these issues. If one has obstacles in life, one should consider doing three things.
1.You accept it. 2. You can change it. 3. Or you can leave it.

I don't want to go into more details of this aspect as this may be long and vexing. Here, I would like to write with emphasis
that all should try to be good as this does not cost you anything. Simply create a mindset for being good and if you
start practicing, gradually people will start calling you good.

I would like to conclude here today. Very soon I will meet you
and till then bye from me. My regards for you all.

Kalyan Ghosh.

Wednesday 21 February 2018

Silence - a great power.

Hello everyone!
We live in a society and here we are made to interact with each other on various issues. In our family life also, we always interact with one another. We talk about various issues that touch our lives on day to day basis including politics. Within the radius of discussion falls everything important in our lives including our workplace.

It is true, that every issue has two sides of its own, one is positive, which is acceptable and the other is negative, that is
unacceptable. During the course of interaction, it is seen that
some are speaking in favour and the rest is against it and thus the venue becomes hot and somewhere it leads to fighting also . When you find that some are arguing having no ground,
must be having some vested interest. In such case, you should
keep your silence. Very soon other reasonable people will
follow suite and resultantly a strong silent protest will be registered.

Usually, protest in silent mode carries more weight and it is
more convincing, attracting more attention from the right
thinking people. If you look around, you will find that in social unrest also, silent protest played a very big role. For any rightful cause, if all stand up and lodge a protest and if this protest is done in a silent way, this will definitely be more
endorsed by the mass for a rightful solution.

If you follow this principle in your domestic arena, I am sure,
you will find the result yourself. Believe you, silence is a great
power. Through this, lot of controversies can be avoided bringing in peace in the atmosphere.

Uptill now, I have written praising for silence as a powerful weapon. This, you can use in special circumstances only. Don't
be silent always. Be vocal as usual. Silence is always powerful
and it should be used in a judicious way otherwise remain vocal and vigilant.

I would like to conclude here for today. Bye from me and my regards for you all.

Kalyan Ghosh.



Saturday 10 February 2018

Unspoken pain.

Hi friends,
We all are human beings and we live in a society. This society is a unique place. Every moment something new is happening, something new is being created. This process is
both physical and subtle.This is really a wonderful play ground and we are all players here playing our parts in our
own ways. We are all separate and individual beings and we
do things differently. We all see, perceive, realise and analyze
things differently as we have different mind sets.

Now, this mind is very powerful and subtle. All minds don't go
along the same way or path. Each mind travels differently with its immense power of feeling, feeling good and happy or
bad and sad.This can be experienced when one mind interacts with another and this course of interaction determines the oneness of minds. From here comes the feeling of friendship and love or enemity and hatred. Friendship and love makes a man happy similarly enemity and hatred produce pain in one's mind and thus it goes.

Closeness or oneness of mind produces friendship and love and it gives pleasant and happy feelings and lot of good experiences come under it. But enemity and hatred give you
pain only. Lot of other issues may come under it as cheating, defeat, refusal, dejection etc. One dejection may ruin one's life as this is extremely painful. Some people share their pain with their close one's and some don't or can't share their pain
with any one on earth and it depends on the severity or intensity of pain. It partly depends on the nature and personality of the man concerned. In this closed situation of
mind, some are able to share pain and some not. Those who
cannot ventilate carries this untold pain forever. It has been
found that some people even die with their untold pain in mind. This untold pain compells the man to lose all impetus
for living his life.

Untold pain is dangerous and at times it becomes unbearable
and so it is always advisable to ventilate one's mind to his/her
close ones. One should enjoy his life sharing all his pain and
happiness with others.

At the end, I wish you all a real peaceful and happy life. I have written what I feel and some may differ and if it happens then please bear with me.

Thanks for your patience and bye from me. My regards for you all.

Kalyan Ghosh.

Tuesday 6 February 2018

Meditation - heartfulness

Hello freinds!
In this era of rat race, you all are so busy in managing your
lives that you hardly find any time for yourself. The situation  has become  such that you don't  feel like standing by to look at a beautiful flower which  is also a nature's gift. The lives of people have become so fast that they are now  distancing themselves from  nature and thus from good mental health. Side by side, it is also true that the awareness of mental health is on the rise.

Here,  I would like to bring the issue of meditation, specially
meditation of heartfullness. This meditation eradicates stress
from man's life.  It helps in handling the adversities also. This is a simple meditation technique that you can practice alongside your daily prayer or other spiritual practices as this is not related to any specific philosophy.

While practicing this meditation, you will feel relaxed. In one of my previous articles, I wrote about mindfulness meditation. This time, it is he artfulness mediation.  This is a simple meditation technique. Fix a cool and comfortable  place and this should be  your place for regular practices.Sit in a relaxed way and focus on your heart and try to feel that it is being filled with light. Don't allow your mind to distract. Do it for twenty minutes  and after being used to it, you may increase it gradually.

More than a  million people do this meditation in more than 100 countries and this trend is  on the rise. This practice helps
in increasing the quality of sleep. This practice helps relieve  stress and increases the body immunity. It helps in improving
the quality of life in multiple ways. What you need is an iron
will and nothing else. Through  this, you can get peace of mind at no cost. It can bring lot of advantages in one's life without any doubt. If you  are seriously searching for peace,  this can be yours. Go and do it.

At the end, I would say that if you decide to do it, rest assured,  that you have taken  your first step towards self
realisation. If you  are really stressed then waste no time as you will surely benefit out of it.

I would like to conclude here for today. Thanks for your patience and bye for now. My regards for you all.

Kalyan Ghosh.

Friday 2 February 2018

Don't forget your past.

Hi friends and welcome!
Today, I have decided to write whatever I can on the above title. It is a fact, that we have been taught to live in the present only instead of the past, as past goes into history. Yes,  everything goes in the history. Whatever you do now,  will also be in history, if you search it tomorrow.

But, there is another school of thought who says not to  forget the past. It is true that  history is a robust collection of all
incidents and stories which are very valuable. We always
take lessons from history for our reference and guidance. History gives us clues for solving problems. History is full of
wealth.

Personally, I also feel that none should forget his past that is
history. In our society, not everyone is rich rather the rich are
fewer in number. Here,  I would  like to remind my freinds
that majority of the society dwellers are from the poor and
the middle class. Now, from this section, some people, by dint
of their hard work and struggle, rise to a high position both
financially and socially.

These extraordinary people rise in their lives after a great
sacrifice and struggle. They should remain in that position
till the end of their life so that they can bring up their children in future with proper education. Please know that it
is more difficult to stick to that position than climbing on to
that position.

There are innumerable  examples of these costly declines from high positions. These declines have definite reasons which should be studied and remembered. What happens is,  some may come under the dazzling influence of wealth and money. Money is very powerful. Some of these people loose
their mental balance and start flying in the sky forgetting  their past history  of poverty,  sacrifice and struggle. If this situation continues, the man concerned gradually falls from
that position. If past was kept in mind, this fall could be averted.

Please take this as a lesson. Don't  forget your past.  Who knows that this may  help you.

I am concluding here for today. Thanks  for your patience  and bye from me. My regards for you all.

Kalyan Ghosh.