Loneliness - It sucks.

Hello friends!
Loneliness is a serious condition. Normally, everyone speaks spontaneously as his mood is supportive. When your mind is alright, you speak to some one close to you. You can also enjoy speaking, when you are in good mood as sometimes you enjoy talking to your partner and you feel fresh. In short, we can say, that everyone is in the habit of speaking and this is usual as long as his mind helps him speak.

But there are certain conditions, where men or women become speechless. Being speechless is not an ordinary condition. It happens under extraordinary circumstances.
Here, I would like to say, that someone may become speechless but that is not loneliness. Occasionally, it has been seen that one becomes speechless for sometime on getting an unexpected good news. It may be an unexpected wealth or an unexpected result of exam.

Loneliness is a very stressful conditions. Here, the mind also is likely to be depressed. A person may feel lonely because of so many reasons, mainly when his mind crashes or his heart breaks and becomes speechless. In such condition, he doesn't feel like talking to anybody and confines within himself. This condition may arise after breaking an old relationship or sudden loss of life of a most loved one etc.

If it is seen that someone has become too lonely in a family, the family members or his friends should watch him from a close proximity. This condition remains for 1/2 months. If the situation continues more than it, then he should be taken to a counselor for sittings and thereafter for medication if required.

I will conclude here before it is made too long and soon I will come before you with another article and till then bye from me. I thank you for your time and patience and my regards for you all. Thanks again.

Kalyan Ghosh.

 A beautiful place in the lap of nature.

Distractions - it may pull you down.

Hello friends!

In today's time, it is very hard to prove efficiency in group or in person as there is stiff competition everywhere. One cannot pass a single day comfortably or in peace. Everywhere, there persists a fear of falling down in the workplace. This happens because of falling efficiency. This decreasing efficiency may affect his personal life also. Don't forget that being inefficient, you loose everywhere.

If you carefully observe, you shall find that distractions are the main reason for this falling efficiency. This hampers your
work you are supposed to do at your workplace. These distractions may lower the quality of you personal and family life. Distractions in you will lead to inefficiencies and thereby
your productivity will be lowered. With lowered productivity,
you loose your value in the workplace.

Modern technology has helped tremendously in the sphere of
Productivity side by side you will see that this modern technology is also creating hindrances in the growth of efficiency and productivity and this is INTERNET and SOCIALMEDIA. The main reason of distraction is being too much active on social media. You may have to take to many
breaks in your duty hours. Because of this, you may have to
gossip more with your colleagues distracting them also.

This social media is capable to keep us engaged always, I mean, always till we go to sleep and we definitely feel thrilled
as we remain connected globally. This has lot of advantages
also which cannot be denied. Social media has become an
inseparable issue in our life and we are so much used to it
that we cannot live without it. This has spread it's wings in every age groups in our society very strongly. We all know that we cannot do without it but we can use it judiciously with prudence so that we don't decrease our efficiency and
productivity. One should always keep in mind that his value is his efficiency and productivity.

I would like to conclude here for today and I am soon coming with another article and till then bye from me. Thanks for your time and support and my regards for you all.

Kalyan Ghosh.

This is very important.

Doubting - may be a disease.

Hi friends!

The word doubt is a much pronounced and much talked about word. Doubt about loyalty, doubt about integrity, doubt about obedience, doubt in reliability etc. There are other kinds of doubts. A doubt in relationship. Very easily you can make the list longer.

It is true that there are definitely genuine reasons for doubt. Doubt cannot be seen, it can be felt or realised after issues are
sorted or analysed with confidence and genuinely. This is a very sensitive issue. It may be a genuine doubt or a guessed one. Doubt should be well verified, justified and scanned properly before identification as even someone's fate may be at stake.

There are certain personalities who are basically intolerant and they cannot take being doubted under any pretext unreasonably and this situation may lead to violent behavior. Doubt in a relationship is very commonly heard. Many relationships simply break because of unreasonable doubts.

I have spoken about doubt and how to think about it. You should now know that there are a category of people who
doubt about anything most unreasonably. They are never convinced with reasoning. Take the instance of a relationship that breaks because of doubt by either person. In many a cases, even an old relationship breaks because of silly doubts.
They are never ready to accept any logic for or against the
doubt.

In many cases, these categories of people are victims of a disease where their minds are preoccupied with it . Sensing a silly deviation, they grow with doubt and that hampers lives.
It is really painful when one sees a relationship breaks. These people can be medically cured and they should take it seriously. Doubt for nothing may be dangerous.

I will conclude here for today. I hope to see you soon with a new article and till then, bye from me. Thanks for your patience and regards for you all.

Kalyan Ghosh.

A great view in the lap of nature.

Don't be greedy.

Hello friends and welcome!

You must be having greed, I mean greed for anything more or less. Having greed is very common in almost everyone barring a few who are very enlightened. As a human quality, how is greed. Is it really good or bad. We will discuss about it a little later.

Let us understand greed first. Greed is an inordinate or insatiable longing for unneeded excess, specially for excess wealth, status, power, or food. Greed is an inordinate desire to acquire or possess more than one needs. Is greed good. Is greed a human instinct. Why are some people inclined to hoard. For some individuals, greed and selfishness are much more habitual. Greed is the fear of not having enough, no matter how much one has. In extreme cases, someone in greed can be ruthless to fulfill one's desire.

Greed does not arise universally. It is seen in definable areas, such as, money, food, attention, love, experience etc. A person develops the quality of being greedy since his childhood. Greed is very problematic. If you don't have any greed, the light of your life becomes dim,  his survival may be difficult.

Now, the question remains, how much a person should be greedy. The answer is undefinable. The best way to know about the need of greed in a person's life is to assess his necessity for living a moderate and happy life. Actually, peace and happiness remains here, if you watch carefully. If you have a craze for more and more and more, then you become greedy. Actually, you should balance in between needs and possibilities in a moderate way. Hanging around for too much
will ruin your happiness and peace of mind. At the end I should say about a proven truth, that being simple is best and simple is everlasting.

I would like to conclude here for today. I hope to see you soon with a new article. I have one request for you, if you like the article then please take the trouble of sharing it as I need your support here.

Thanks for your support and bye from me now. With my best regards to you all.

Kalyan Ghosh.

Nature gives you everything.

Tomorrow may not come.

Hi friends and welcome!

Oftenly, we say or we hear someone say that I will not do it today and instead, do it tomorrow. But, it is a hard truth that tomorrow never comes. It will never come and nobody has seen it. As you also cannot see tomorrow, and if you believe in it, then you have only today with you. I think, you should live your life in a productive way with all good intentions.

Don't procrastinate. I know, those who believe in tomorrows,
majority of them are procrastinators. Procrastinators don't want to do the beginning having all qualities to complete a job successfully, but they don't and they wait for tomorrow to
come which never comes.

Tomorrow may not look the same way as today, no matter what and how you try it. All you need right now is to appreciate and enjoy what you have today Enjoy today's gift
of life, appreciate every moment of life and live life with kindness to others as your tomorrow may not be same as today.

There is no difference, between doing something today and doing something tomorrow, when you have only one life to
live. After all, tomorrow may never come and all you have is
today.You should stop living and thinking for what may or
may not happen. Live for today which is already here and live
it without any regrets. Be very active today and remain
happy and peaceful.

I will conclude here today and more when I comeback with a
new article and till then bye from me.
Thanks for your patience and regards for you all.

Kalyan Ghosh.

 Beautiful nature, which gives only.

Be grateful.

Hello and welcome!
Gratefulness is a big quality. Gratefulness is nothing but
acknowledging that someone did good to you. This quality of
gratefulness is declining fast. Nowadays, people tend to forget the man who did any good him by any means.Some says that he is forgetful in nature but this an excuse only as this not at all difficult to keep someone's name in memory.

Being ideally grateful, you can get so many people in your network, who would be ready to help you in any way at times. Being grateful you may become more popular in your circle. People may know you as a better and reliable person.

If you remain as an ungrateful man, people will not trust you and they may be unwilling to extend their helping hand to you in time of your need. This quality should be imbibed from very young age. Man is a social being and he cannot live alone of his own. Living in a society, he needs cooperation
from others many a times.

Now, if you forget the people who showed some good gestures to you, they may not cooperate with you in future. Gratefulness increases brotherhood. Being grateful is nothing hard. It does not cost you anything. It is one's mentality and habit only. Remain grateful seriously, you will soon reap the fruits. For your peaceful co-existance, it is necessary.

I will end here. More when I come before you next time and till then bye from me. Thanks for your patience and my
regards for you all.

 One would surely like this natural beauty.

Kalyan Ghosh.

Austerity - an essential quality.

Hi friends!

Austerity is a great and essential quality. This is such a quality
that helps immensely to upgrade from poor to middle class and from middle class to the rich. Money itself is a great power. It should be handled very carefully. If you can't then you are in the ruins. It is a quality that balances between earning and expenditure of a person.

There is a saying that one is rich in the first week,in the second and third, he is middle class and in the last week, he becomes poor. If one is capable of managing the flow of his expenditure and is capable of keeping the expenditure reasonably static, then it may be possible for him to see a little surplus. Usually some will say, easier said than done. To this, I say, It is practicable and doable.

I have seen people spending money simply to show off before their friends and relatives in parties mainly on birthdays, different anniversaries and other get together buying costly gifts going beyond his capacity. In some cases they borrow money even for these. They should know, that today is not the only day, they have to survive steadily for long.

I really don't know what is the harm in saying I am what I am. What is the need of showing off ruining your tomorrow. None will help you in time of your need. So it is better to be a little
conservative in spending money. Spend where it is needed and you know it better than anybody. Be a little saving minded. Try to grow little surplus from within your resources for your tomorrow. This way you can upgrade to the upperclassmen. If you can do it, you will do it for yourself to be a bit better.

Money is a big resource. Don't misuse it, save it as it may help you in a big way in future. If you think about your future seriously, I hope, you will grow up with this quality of being saving minded and that is austerity.

I will end here today. Thanks for your patience and bye from me now. My regards for you all.

Kalyan Ghosh.